I hate that every single time I come home, my mom has to ask me if I have a fiance boyfriend yet. I know that she strongly believes that whoever I date in college is going to end up as my husband. Nope, doesn’t matter that it’s highly likely that whoever I date will end up somewhere far away from me, depending on what jobs or grad school positions we’re offered upon graduation. AND NO MOM, YOU PROBABLY WON’T HAVE GRANDCHILDREN FROM ME, AND ON THE UNLIKELY NOTE THAT I DECIDE TO SHIT OUT ONE CHILD, THAT WON’T EVEN HAPPEN UNTIL AFTER I GET MY PHD/AM FINANCIALLY STABLE, AKA WHEN I’M OVER 30.
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Things that are hard for martinmgn.tumblr.com to understand:
- Not all girls date boys, and vice versa
- “Level of slutiness” is not the only criteria by which people judge potential dates
- Human beings have value beyond how many people they’ve fucked
- Sex is super awesome
- I respect myself by acknowledging that I’m a sexual human being with urges and desires and acting on those, as opposed to repressing it so that boys won’t think I’m “slutty” and not want to date me.
-Jess
Boy makes lighthearted post encouraging females to respect themselves.
Girls respond with hate and threats of being promiscuous just for him.
is all of tumblr on their period?Boy makes post slut-shaming women and enforcing patriarchal ideas — that it’s a woman’s responsibility to remain “pure,” that women should always keep in mind what their potential boyfriends/husbands might want. Girls are rightfully offended, get angry and respond with sarcasm.
Boy takes sarcasm literally and then makes misogynist comment about all uterus-owners on Tumblr.
SOUNDS LEGIT
Heterosexual, cis-gendered women and girls who actually respect themselves don’t want to date sexist, misogynistic men and boys who will judge the content of their character based on what they wear or how they express their sexuality. WHY IS THAT SO HARD FOR YOU TO UNDERSTAND?
#GOCHOKEONADICKANDDIE <3
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Because there isn’t a single girl or woman in this world that hasn’t been intruded upon and sometimes it’s relatively benign and sometimes it’s so fucking painful.
I feel like a lot of men like this see the women and girls in their lives as different from the others, that they don’t deserve to be violated and disrespected like other women do. Those goddamn whores.
"I went to Northwestern because I had gone to a really nontraditional high school. I was like, ‘It’d be cool to have a traditional college experience,’” Deschanel, 32, explains. “Then I was like, ‘Oh, but none of these people understand what’s cool about me. My specialness is not appreciated in this place.’"
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my specialness is not appreciated in this place.
MY SPECIALNESS IS NOT APPRECIATED IN THIS PLACE
(zooey on her experience at Northwestern via)
God Zooey, pull your head out of your ass. It’s not that bad out here.
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zooey, my dear, there are special and different people at every place. if your specialness wasn’t appreciated, you probably thought you were too special to try to find the right people for you.
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Your “specialness” wasn’t appreciated because you sound like an asshole.
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This from the woman who was surprised that it took effort to make a marriage work. I can’t with this. Simplebitch.gif
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Tina Fey is my other husband - Amy Poehler
Amy Poehler and I have been friends for so long, we’re like Oprah and Gale. Only we’re not denying anything - Tina Fey
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